For the power the sunhans use a smaller plug for power than what comes with the RexUav
battery. Good news is they sell the adapter. That will adapt to the correct size you need and its already a "y" connector so you can power both. If its the 3000
battery you should be about 6 to 7 flights before you have to charge the
battery again which is pretty good.
As for connecting the "sma's" to the 4hawks. That part is pretty easy. I am not sure what comes out of the remote. But i do know that the antenna in of the sunhan is a female sma. So one side would need to be male going to that and depending what is on the RC side you would either need male or female. From there coming out of the sunhan is (antenna out) that i know is male. I want to say that the 4hawks came with a male cable on both ends i dont remember because i dont have it in front of me. But if it does you will need one side to be female.(i have to check so you get the right stuff).
As far as mounting it what i have see is people double side tab or Velcro the boosters and batter to the back of the 4hawks(RC side) so its on compact unit and it looks good. This way you can pop on you whips when you want to use them or thread on your connectors if you want to you the 4hawks and everything is in one spot.
Let me know if that helps.
How is the xr by itself ? what kind of distance have you gotten from it non-boosted. I have the SR and I have boosted that as well as boosted 5db omis and with that setup i crushed the 8k mark in one direction in 2.4ghz